The question of women and the psyche is difficult and richly provocative because India is traditionally conceived of as a mother. Her identity was Mother India from the days of the British Empire, and much of the initial mobilisation in the late 19th century was about restoring the dignity of the “mother”.
Later, Gandhi was regarded as a father figure – ironically so, perhaps, given his frailty and how he embraced effeminacy. Today, with the rise of Hindu nationalism, there’s an ongoing quest to install different fathers of the nation, for example Patel, India’s original strong man; perhaps he’s the true father. It’s like a game of musical chairs, but one in which Gandhi’s status is only confirmed in the end.
India remains, as it were, the mother, but the issue is that, in a democracy, we are not children; we are brothers and sisters. Our relationships with each other are horizontal. As a result, both violent and non-violent competition between the sexes is gaining traction.