The question about what stress is and how we respond to it is important because there’s a lot of misunderstanding. The word “stress” is problematical, as it means completely different things to different people. What stresses you is probably very different from what stresses me. There is no single definition of stress. The other thing that’s important is that stress has evolved as something that is actually beneficial for you.
Everybody thinks of stress as something that is dangerous and nasty, but if you’re walking through the plains of East Africa and a lion turns up, you want to be stressed because it will activate many brain pathways and make you concentrate on what’s important. You will ignore the fact that your tummy is rumbling or that you’ve got an itch, or that there’s a beautiful cloud going across the sky. Instead, you will concentrate on the fact that there might be a tree 50 yards away, and if you could get to that tree and climb it, you might get away. Stress helps increase your blood sugar to give you energy so that you can run to the tree and escape. In fact, it does much more than that because you will always remember that particular event. If you survive, you will remember it and you will learn from it. Therefore, it is very important you have a stress response because it helps you get away from that situation and it concentrates your memory. There are certain things that happen in our lives that we never forget because they happened within a particular stressful situation.


